The Friends Who Call Forth the Best in Us

The Friends Who Call Forth the Best in Us

The loss of a dear friend led me to discover the deeper meaning of noble friendship — and to question how I show up for the people I love. Recently, a dear friend of mine and his wife tragically died in a car crash in Canada while they were on holiday from London....
Reclaiming Your Life from Your Success

Reclaiming Your Life from Your Success

What could change in the next six months if you stopped carrying everything alone? Recently, I wrote about the life-changing power of one simple introduction. An introduction matters because it creates the possibility of a conversation. And sometimes, one honest...
The Life-Changing Magic of One Simple Introduction

The Life-Changing Magic of One Simple Introduction

One thoughtful introduction could spark a friendship, a marriage, a livelihood—or an entirely new future. More than twenty years ago, I introduced two of my friends. One was a friend from my schooldays, while the other was my regular squash opponent. I knew them both...
What Happens When You Create the Space?

What Happens When You Create the Space?

What becomes possible when one invitation creates the space for strangers, old friends and entire communities to find one another? Last Sunday, a corner of Regent’s Park became a meeting place for friendships spanning decades, families, neighbours, old colleagues and...
The Most Valuable Relationship You’ll Ever Build

The Most Valuable Relationship You’ll Ever Build

  Recently, I came across an idea from Townsend Wardlaw that stopped me in my tracks: You cannot build a million-dollar relationship with a founder until you have built one with yourself. Townsend was talking about becoming a trusted adviser to ambitious founders...
One Invitation Can Change a Life

One Invitation Can Change a Life

Why my annual Friends & Friend’s Friends Picnic matters more than ever Back in the summer of 2002, I had a simple idea. What if I invited all my friends to a picnic—and asked them to invite their friends too? I had no idea what would happen. What began as a...
What Happens When Someone Doesn’t Choose You?

What Happens When Someone Doesn’t Choose You?

The real test of self-love begins when someone else says no – and you have to decide what that means about you.   Last week, I wrote about what it really means to say, “I choose you” It was in the context of my cousin Suraj marrying his sweetheart...
What Does It Really Mean to Say “I Choose You”?

What Does It Really Mean to Say “I Choose You”?

A family wedding, a precious memory of my father, and why lasting love may be the most intimate expression of The Connection Revolution.   I choose you—and I keep choosing you. Last Sunday, I attended the wedding of my first cousin Suraj. He stood beside Aayushi,...
Why Every Great Legacy Begins With a Conversation

Why Every Great Legacy Begins With a Conversation

One of the things I love most about living in London is that you never quite know what the day has in store. Yesterday was a perfect example. I was in central London at the National Gallery for lunch with my friend Peter, who was celebrating a special birthday. There...
What Six Gatherings Across London Taught Me About Human Connection

What Six Gatherings Across London Taught Me About Human Connection

Last weekend, I found myself in six very different gatherings across London. On Friday afternoon, I joined hundreds of people watching the Wimbledon men’s semi-final on a giant outdoor screen in central London. Complete strangers, all absorbed in the same drama,...